Kids’ decision to stay in sports and enjoy its many benefits—rather than dropping out—is a function of how much fun they’re having, he says. And young athletes have more fun if parents and coaches understand how best to communicate with them.
It’s your job as sports parents to ensure your kids are having fun. That means it’s your job to understand how to communicate with them—and how to choose coaches who know just how to pick their words.
First of all, be sure you find out what motivates your kids to play. Ask them what they love about the sport. Be sure to listen carefully. When you talk to kids, be sure to separate their motivation for playing sports from your motivation for having them play sports. You want to follow their lead.
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